Isn’t it quite amazing
that something which is 300 million kilometres away, made up of metal, rock and
gases, called planets and stars, can influence the behaviour and personality of
human beings? Now, the question is “how do they really work?”
Well, every planet has
strong radiations in particular month. And when a child is born under those months,
he is affected by the radiations of the planets in different zodiac sings. That
influences a new born child’s personality traits and makes him different from
others. These zodiac signs are responsible for a person’s personality, talents,
intelligence, physique, characteristics, temperament, and their basic nature.
Indian and western
zodiac traditions have 12 constellations and each of them has their own qualities
and strengths. Parents can use these signs to better understand and help their
child in their lives. These signs are:
ARIES (March 21- April 20):
Aries children are
natural leaders, very energetic, impulsive, self-expressive, passionate,
forceful, independent, like show-off, aggressive, courageous, brave, egotistical,
and strong. They keep themselves first and sometimes cross the limits if
someone challenges them because they like challenges. Aries children are great
to start new projects but not good in finishing them.
Parents need to be
patient and guide their little ones gently and firmly to stay on the task. Aries
have high energy, so parents need to channelize their energy through physical
exercise. Because of their often stubbornness, we also need to teach them the
idea of compromise.
TAURUS (April 21- May 21):
Taurian child is sweet,
cuddly, passive, practical, co-operative, creative, harmonious, beautiful,
affectionate, moderate, indulgent, self-motivated, resistant, sociable, loves
routine, likes to be strong and cheerful, and takes his responsibility
seriously. Taurian is a sensual child who experiences the world through their
senses like taste, touch and experience. They love to eat from the time they
are born, but try to avoid giving them sugary food. Taurians are good at
handling money.
Introduce your child outdoors as early as
possible as they bloom in natural environment. Taurus children won’t be rushed.
This is something you, as a parent, will need to adjust for. In fact, they're
pretty slow. Don't try to pack too many activities into one day because the
likelihood is your little one just won’t get through them all. Security is
their first priority, so they want to be swaddled and held.
GEMINI (May 22- June 21):
Gemini children are
curious, versatile, bright, charming, communicative and sociable, curious and
fully aware of their surroundings. They are witty and adaptable to any
circumstance with a cheerful attitude,
They like new things
and once they master something they will get bored. Parents should make sure
that their child is surrounded with books and puzzles to keep his mind busy and
active. They can change their mind often, so as a parent you should help them
focus and develop a particular area of strength.
CANCER (June 22- July 23):
Cancer children are sensitive,
who learn from their emotional memory. They always prefer home environment
surrounded with familiar things, so, while going out somewhere, parents should
bring something along (like a favourite toy) which gives them feeling of
security.
They like to follow a
routine so as a parent you can give them an unchanging home environment. Cancerians
want lots of affection which gives them emotional security. Besides that they
are caring, kind and a good listener.
They like privacy. When
they are threatened, they normally pull into themselves until they feel
everything is safe again. Parents should let them solve their problems and
should encourage them to talk about their feelings to build up their confidence.
LEO (July 24- August 23):
Leo is the only sign which is ruled by a star and that is “Sun”. They
are well known as a born leader. They have an enormous heart, are generous,
loyal, humorous, honest, enthusiastic, and affectionate.
Leos are like coconut, hard
from outside and vulnerable from inside. They are very sensitive, so, as a parent, you
have to be very careful while talking to your little ones because your one
harsh word can knock down their confidence.
They always seek for
attention and approval. They do best if they are showered with genuine praises
and credits for what they have done. Leo children have a natural dramatic
talent, so they enjoy stage performances and like to dress themselves in
colourful sense of style. Parents need to genuinely reward them for their
strengths as much as possible.
VIRGO (August 24- September 23):
Virgo child has a great
common sense. They give attention to details and that’s why they are known as
perfectionist. They make decisions only after concerning the cons and pros of
the situation. They generally have high
standards and are cautious, so they seem shy.
Virgo children are sharply
intellectual, careful, critical and modest. They love to help others and this
is the quality which parents should encourage. As a parent, to avoid your
child’s over modesty and perfectionism, you should encourage him as much as
possible and pass the message that sometimes good enough is just that.
LIBRA (September 24- October 23):
Peace-maker Libra child
is charming and friendly with everyone. He is connected with their loved ones. Libra
children are not able to express their point confidently in front of others
because they think that others might be hurt. So they become indecisive and always
try to be gentle, polite and try to please others.
A fair Libra child
loves beauty and comfort. They bring people close. As a parent of a Libra your
responsibility is to teach them that being assertive is not bad. Help them to
build self-confidence.
SCORPIO (October 24- November 22):
Scorpio child’s
magnetic personality is full of mystery and secrets. They never expose their
true personality, but there is so much hidden inside their brains that you
shouldn’t be fooled by their calm personality.
They are passionate and
deep thinker. Parents are their first concern to form emotional connection but
you can only understand them if they let you in. Without realising they may
frequently test the strength of this bond to confirm that how much you love
them. They have a natural sense to understand others.
Suspicious Scorpio is an all-or-nothing child, with
almost no level in between, and for both of these levels they become obsessive.
As a parent of a Scorpio child you need to teach them the importance of
forgiveness and balanced relationship. To
channel their focus, teach them to develop any interest and that will be good
for them as well as for others also.
SAGITTARIUS (November 23- December 21):
Children who come under
this sign tend to have positive attitude towards life. They are known as born
adventurers, are full of energy, outgoing and like changes. They want to
explore the world and gain experience.
Sagies are sporty so as
a parent you need to channelize their energy by taking them out for physical
exercise and play. To keep their mind active, you need to arrange lots of books
and trips to zoo, museum, art galleries etc. They need challenges and freedom,
so make sure you give them. Friendly and optimistic Sagis are always surrounded
with people. You can also throw a party for them.
CAPRICORN (December 22- January 20):
The most serious sign, which
is highly ambitious, may think pretend play, hide-and-seek, and dressing-up are
all non-sense and wastage of time. They like rewards, success, and approval and
to get them they work hard. From the
very young age Capris know what exactly they want in their life, and so they
plan accordingly.
Capri child has natural
sense of responsibility, so they can be a responsible older sibling. But as a
parent you should give them some time to play and relax. Also tell them the
importance of being flexible. Shower them with praises.
AQUARIUS (January 21- February 19):
Aquarius children are
different from others. They are original, unpredictable, and marches to the
beat of their own drum. Friendly Aquarians are social, inventive, incredible, and
technical, likes unusual things and attracted to new experiences.
Parents should respect
their individuality and freedom otherwise they will get depressed. These
children tend to be intelligent and problem solver. They can take out their
brilliance when showered with books, art and craft materials and are encouraged
for creativity. As a parent give them plenty of space.
PISCES (February 20- March 20):
Pisces children are a
real dreamer and being a dreamer they mostly live in fantasy. They are
imaginative, intuitive, sensitive, loving, caring, self-sacrificing. They have
lots of empathy for others, and that’s why, until it is too late, they don’t
believe that they are being cheated.
Instead of logic, they
believe in instincts. They have great ideas about the life, but unfortunately
they are not related to reality. As a parent you have to step in when they need
to protect themselves from those who want to take an advantage from them. As a
baby they want an extra affection, cuddles, kisses, and encouragement.
Overall, based on above
discussion, we can broadly draw two conclusions. One, that every child is
different from others, star signs being one of the main reasons. Second, that
because of these differences, each child has his own strengths and weaknesses
and parents should modify their parenting styles accordingly, to make his child
a happy and successful individual.
References:
[1] BabyCenter Horoscopes. http://www.babycenter.in/horoscopes/
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